While I have a rebellious nature, for the most part, I play by the rules. I don’t like the financial ramifications of driving more than 10 miles over the speed limit and I have never embezzled money from an employer. (Stealing desserts while working in a restaurant is part of the job). But for some reason, when I’m fucking someone, I get punished for having a good time. Spanking.
In contrast to being spanked as a kid, having a guy slap your ass while his dick’s inside you is a lot of fun. The sound of a splayed hand on bare butt is a welcome addition to the heavy breathing that usually accompanies it. There’s a sharp crack that makes you jump a little, from shock and a sting. But there is an art to it, and not everyone can do it well.
I’m not advocating being severely beaten, but when being fucked from behind, it seems like the ass is waiting for it. You’re sticking it out further to get the dick in deeper and he’s got one hand on your hip, holding you closer. But there’s the free hand that needs to be occupied. My suggestion? Spank that ass.
Not everyone can pull it off. With my current number, it’s touch and go. Ex-Husband #1 was a master. #20 did it pretty well, too. It’s definitely an art. You don’t want to wait too long in between smacks, but you don’t’ want to go too fast either. You’re not patting the couch to get the dog to jump up, you’re reminding the woman that you’re in charge.
A good spanking should leave your cheeks a little red, but not black and blue. You still want to be able to sit down after the fuck and enjoy your cocktail. But it’s always nice when you have to shift a little to get comfortable.
Moral of the story, when being punished, a “Time Out” is a waste.